
I always think what could be the best gift I can give to my friend on his/her birthday, a nice sweater, a beautiful watch, a necklace, I don’t know; what he/she has or what they want today? I always forget one think though, what I need from my friend? Its nothing but “Time”. That’s true if you reach a few min early to help your friend decorate the room or stay late to help him/her clean after all leaves, that’s what would make them feel special about you.
Most of the relations take a turn, and they travel on the road of ‘fight’ for long because of the time you spent with your partner is less then expected. Listen to this one; believe me its pretty regular for all. You ask them out on a movie but come to pick up late, let me tell you there is no point of celebration after that as you won’t be together in the movie. That right!!! Don’t you act surprised, as if you don’t know already. “She” will be with sha-rukh and “He” will be with Aishwarya, dam it she is one beautiful piece of cake. Anyways, so my point is, the whole concept of going out is to spend some time together and share what you don’t in regular days and that is lost; blame the bloody handsome starts or whatever, but the fact remain the same.
Don’t you get happy Mr. Single; I am coming to you as well. Mr. single goes to office daily and is very happy in working all day. At 6 PM he stretches his arms and thinks what am I going to do once I reach home? I will cook, then watch some crap on TV and then read a book and then my lovely bed. So, lets stay some more time and then I will go directly to the dining table and then to bed. The whole week passes by the same routine and here comes the lovely weekend. You get up by 10 AM with a smile of weekend on your beautiful face, slowly you get ready and have something to eat and then your brain suddenly starts thinking, what is that left yesterday and you go out catch a bus and reach directly to your office. Again tik tak tik on keyboard. Did you ever though that sometimes you might have to give a gift to yourself, that’s right I am talking about the same piece of shit I have been talking all the way, TIME.
Hey, I hope you got my point. Once you start giving time to your family, friends, and partners and above all to yourself, you can be more effective in your thinking process, in your work, in your activities. You will be faster and accurate; you not even have to come to office on weekends or to stay late. You will then find lots of hidden talent in you and people around you. Believe me you are here because “ you work to live, don’t live to work”. Think about what you just read and I will say try to follow for couple of weeks and if you feel this all is nothing but crap, open it again, read it again, take a print and burn it. Just kidding, I just wanted to remind you what you already know.
Thanks for spending “Time” for me to read this, made me happy.
1 comment:
I m really impressed the way you have given advice to spend time with the people whom do u really care and love.Thanks Anshul.
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