“7+1 stories around me ’Friends”

Read it with intensity, as you might be in one of the 8 stories.

I have 7 close friends or I should say seven wonders of my life. I met them on different stages of life from 5th grade to a year back. Somehow they hold the most important part of my life. We all had our love stories going on from some years. I know about all of them, and what they will feel? How they will deal? Except how I feel and how will I deal about it?

I get worried if they get worried; I get happy when they are happy. It is way too confusing that what exactly is happening around in their lives. Before I make you all confused, I have to talk about them. I don’t wana name them here on this blog, so here it is:

Friends and their love:
Lotu - Ms A
PS - DJ
Ghoda - Ms N
Joker - Ms Pilani
KS - Dost
Bidi - Ms R
Ash - Ms Ker

So don’t get confused. Lotu, my friend for life and from life. He is my childhood friend and a person who can understand me like anything. He is a fun guy and still having fun. He met his love in college and didn’t understand that she is love or not. He though she is just a crush and didn’t want to get serious about it. He was right and that is the reason he lived happily. I think he will be the person who will get his love. He is now in deep love with Ms A and hope she does the same. His life is all good in terms of love though the challenge for us is he is not at all worried about his education and future. I don’t know what is he doing and what are his plans but the way he is cool is scaring us.

PS, A person who is a closed book for me from always. He met me in 11th grade. In a very short time we became friends. I always thought he is never going to be matured enough to understand the funda of relation (Rishte). Fortunately I was wrong. He fell in love with (a) girl and they both are passionate about each other. DJ met his parents recently and his parents happen to like her somehow, though they are having some second thoughts. They asked him to take the decision and I am so happy that he is thinking about it and not taking any hosh-posh decision. I never knew he grew up more than anyone of us. I got shocked when he said he is worried about Lotu and asked me to talk to him and make him understand that he need to concentrate on his life first. His words shacked me like anything, his words were “ we did lots of mistakes in our life and now we understand that how we ourselves screwed our lives. I regret that I didn’t study, the time I should have. He should understand or he will be late like us” I was almost filled with tears after hearing this. I was always worried about him, but now I know he can take of everything comes to him.

Ghoda, a cool, well planed, disciplined person. My only friend who is so managed and well behaved. True, I always admired him and I think everybody did, even my parents. There is only one thing that he probably needs to change is: he doesn’t have to be so practical about everything in life, some things are better being hypothetical. He always had a best love story and I will not lie I was always envy him. As of now he is not doing so well. I think he must be worried about his life, he doesn’t say it but I know it. He is worried about his job. His love story is almost complete but if there is job problem, then the path gets tough. There is one thing for sure, more then anything I want, I wanted them to get married. Ghoda and Ms N are made for each other.

Joker, he is my pal, my buddy, a person who thinks like me, who feels like me, who plan like me. He is very very close to my heart. I met him in college and 1st year itself we become close. He always had problems in his love life. There was a time when he captured back seat of my bike and his ear was captured by his stupid phone. He knew I get irritated with it but at the same time love to see how involved he is. Once it was late in the night and joker and me were on the call, this was the first time he told me that he is not going to be with Ms pilani and they are going to break up. I don’t know why I busted out in tears that day. I know I so wanted them to be together, I should rather say I wanted him to be happy by any way. I am sorry to say but I never liked Ms Pilani anytime. As of now, they talk to each other, they fight most of the time and they are not together for sure. She is going to get married soon but he will never tell himself not to love her. My friend is in real love, its just the world can not understand his feeling. I wish for his happiness and I know he is going to get someone very special.

KS, what should I say; she was there whenever I needed her. She supported me, she knows me in and out, she makes me happy, she make me annoyed… I met her in college. We never use to talk to each other, I think we rather use to hate. Somehow we become friends and I started telling her about my love problems, I should say, I started bugging her up with my stupid concerns. She is a awesome listener. She had someone special in her life and we all knew they are good couples but didn’t work well. It wasn’t a long relation for others but she still respects him a lot. We were together a long time and she never told much about what’s happening in her love life, but I always knew she is not happy. She always uses to smile and I wanted to make her smile by anyway. We had lots of fights but we were always friends. I don’t know how she did it, but she is almost over her relation from past unlike anyone else. I think she is stronger. I know she still cry sometime when she is alone but never tell me or I think anyone. I know one thing that she is going to keep her life partner with love and affection and gona take care of him all her life.

Bidi, I can explain him in one word FUN. He brought lots of changes in my life, he taught me how to deal with lost relations and he actually gave my life back. I met him 2 years back and just in few days he became my pal. We use to hangout, drink and more then that talk together a lot. I still remember Bidi me and one of my roommate (Ash) use to talk for hours about our love life in night. We can understand us so well. One day we three we in a bar having some couple of drinks and talking about the problems and we all had tears in our eyes at the same time. I think that day became my, or may be all three of us memory of life. Our lives suck that time. Anyways I am happy after all that happened to his life and all the tough time, he is now with Ms R and they gona be married soon.

Last but not the least, Ash. I met him when I joined the job first. His first impression was not so good no me, I though he is arrogant and stubborn person. He is awesome guy. He is some how like Joker and me. Except that he is more responsible towards life and a very devotee child for his parents. His love life started long back and we use to talk a lot about it. I respect his way of thinking and his attitude towards love. He is more a friend to Ms Ker then a lover and for me that is one difficult task. He loved her so hard and it was difficult for us to understand his love, but now I do understand, unfortunately his story is not going anywhere. Things were never with him, he always kind of new the end of it, though he tried and thought more practically. I like his final decision. I saw him crying, I saw him laughing, and I saw him as a friend. One thing I wana confess is he might not know but I consider him to be one of my best friend and will always wish for his goodwill.

I want to talk about one more person before I conclude it. I met her in college and we were just, is should say classmates. Slowly we became friends and she took a place in my life just like other 7 of them.I know she might smile for all and acts like a dumb person in front of the world but she is sensitive and a caring person. She is thoughtful and above all she is very devotee to her family that is the reason I respect her a lot. She is the only one in my Pals who is not in love with someone as of I know.

That’s why I named the title as 7+1. It amazes me that all the people those are close to me all are in love from long-long back, except the one. Someone from them told me once ‘never love a person who doesn’t love you back’. I guess it is true...

May be I am not able to link you with all the stories, but for me they all are like my part of life and it hurts when they are hurt. I am very far from all but I am close to their hearts. I wish for their happiness over mine because I know they all wish for me.

All of them, they found their love sometime in life may be few were/are not so lucky but at least they know how it feels like. That’s what is important in life and I think they should admire it. I admire that instead I have 7+1 gems in my life, how more luck I could be.